by Joost J. Bakker IJmuiden

Question by Sam: Why are so many Christian single girls so lonely? Where can I meet a nice moral guy and not become desperate?
I became single almost a year ago. My fiance who was a Christian ended up being unfaithful so I ended our relationship. Its taken a year to get my confidence back. I was so happy but I didnt know him. Im a Christian girl aged 29. I’d say I was a loving, pretty and fun girl. However there seems to be a shortage of men in church and Ive joined various Christian dating sites with no success.

There are LOADS of single girls in all the churches I have been to. All seem lonely and disheartened and most seem resigned to the fact that they will end up single and alone. It’s horrible. I cry everytime I come back from church because I am surrounded by single girls and then young families. I feel such a pressure to find someone. I think its because I had planned my wedding and in my head I was going to be settled with a family. Now Im on my own again and most people my age in couples dont want to hang around with me. They are doing things with their partner.

Im starting to think I should date guys who are not Christians or face being single forever. The only problem is that I am still a virgin and dont want to have sex until Im married. How will I find a non Christian who will wait for me? Will they think Im a freak? Any advice would be really appreciated. I feel so crap right now xxx

Best answer:

Answer by How quick the sun drops away.
It gets easier over time.

Hell I’m agnostic but I waited 2 years for my girl who’s a christian. Of course I was in the military so…
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My brothers parents (he’s my half brother) were big time junkies (drug addicts) then they found god and living a good christian lifestyle.

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by Joost J. Bakker IJmuiden

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Dating and relationships remain an integral part of our lives. Some of us admit this while some remain in denial. However good or bad our past experiences are, we always remain hopeful of meeting that one special someone who gives us a sense of belonging and makes us feel wanted. For these romantic relationships to remain rosy and blossom over the years, it is of utmost importance that the two partners are compatible.

A compatible partner is the one who has a wavelength which is if not same, then similar to ours. Dating someone who has the same likes and dislikes as you makes life a lot simpler for both the partners, and a Christian single dating service can help. There are a few tips that, if put to practice will be of great help in finding you a soul mate who is extremely compatible with you. The first step towards finding a compatible partner is spending enough time with the person and trying to get to know him/her better, this can be done on a Christian single dating site. Their values, opinions and choices should be on the same lines as yours. The faith and religion of the partner can also affect the compatibility in your relationship to a great extent.

If you intend to take the dating to another level, the life goals of your partner with regards to home, career and children should also be taken account of. If two people want different things from life, it is extremely difficult for them to build a happy life together. Another most neglected aspect of compatibility in couples is the sexual compatibility between them. The way your partner likes to be treated in bed and the amount of time he/she wants to dedicate to sex should be acceptable to you or this difference of opinion is bound to reflect on the life of your relationship.

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by Joost J. Bakker IJmuiden

Question by charles: is Christianmingle.com a good place to meet fellow single christians?
and is flirting allowed on there ?

Best answer:

Answer by Trollface
I suggest http://mormon.org/chat/

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by Studentersamfunnet i Bergen

1. Devoted to the Lord. Christian singles were devoted to the Lord. They praise and honor God every single moment of their life. They have great love and fears to the Lord—things we wish a person have.

2. Long-term relationship. With these singles you have an assurance of having a long-term relationship because when it comes to love they take it seriously. They are sincere and faithful to their chosen partner.

3. Responsible enough. Most of the Christian singles especially men are responsible enough. They are not the type of person that would go away of their responsibilities. In short, they are responsible with their obligations to you.

4. Family. When it comes to family issue they were well-oriented with this. They really value this. Not tomention that they were considered as one of the perfect mother/father to your children and the perfect wife/husband to you.

5. Conservative (women). Most of Christian singles especially women are so conservative. They value theirdignity and physical purity. For these singles, saving sex for their spouse is the perfect gift that they could give.

6. TRUE LOVE. The most important thing that Christian singles can give. They will really take care of your heart and promise to give you a happy ending love story.

7. Loyalty. Unlike other singles, these people are loyal to their love ones. When they have a promise they gonna keep it as they can. They want trust to each other.

8. Loving. Most of them are sweet, loving and caring to their partner. They will protect and comfort you always.

9. The total respect. Christian singles have a total respect to their partner. Even your family, friends and relatives will be treated as part of his/her family too. They will understand and respect your decisions ( if possible ) and learn to love each others weaknesses.

10. Willing to relocate. You can have these singles in your side everytime you want because for the sake of love and marriage these Christian singles are willing to relocate. They love to spend their time and life with you.

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I would like to introduce you to the famous Catholic singer and guitarist, John Michael Talbot. John was raised in the Methodist faith in Oklahoma City, OK. John started playing guitar at age 10 and by his teens he was the guitarist for the folk/rock band, Mason Proffit. As John got older he realized that there was more to life than what has experiencing and started on a search for God. John explored many eastern religions but ended up deeper in Christianity. During this time period in the 70 s John recorded two solo albums entitled: John Michael Talbot and The New Earth. John discovered the writings of St. Francis of Assisi and was greatly inspired by the truth he found. In 1978 John converted to the Catholic Church and joined the Third Order of Franciscans. John founded a house of prayer and eventually went on to founding a new religious community called The Brothers and Sisters of Charity, a community for religious Brothers and Sisters as well as Lay couples and singles. John supports his community through his music. Starting with his Christian awakening in the 1970s, John and recorded 51 Christian albums.